Monday, December 16, 2013

The Tale of the B's

So it is 3am. 3:35 am German time as I pen this. I am wide awake and the silence is only interrupted but the breathing that fills the room.
As is I assume, quite normal when one is wide awake 3 hours or so ahead of the time set on one's alarm clock, my mind is wondering. We are to take another trip to Berlin -this time, apartment hunting - and I am currently thinking of the comparisons between my first German experience and the one I am currently experiencing.  
Berlin and Bernburg. That I would live again in a place beginning with B in Germany must not be a coincidence right? They were both located on the eastern side of divided Germany - at least where I lived in Berlin, and  both capitals. Bernburg, the capital of the district of Salzlandkreis and Berlin, is in most ways, the capital of Continental Europe owing to the fact that the strongest leader in the EU is seated there. Although "Capitols" the scale is incomparable. Bernburg (first mentioned in the 10th century) population 35,000 Berlin ( first documented in the 13th century) is home to ten times as many, 3.4 million persons. 
Berlin - Fernsehturm
In Berlin one has a huge selection of restaurants - Indian, Japanese, Thai and even a Caribbean, a variety of neighborhoods which offer anything you can ever want. If you want to be around artsy fartsies. There is an area for that. The rich. Also an area for that. The young and educated. You are covered. And if you are middle-aged with a family and just don't want to leave the city, Berlin has a Berzik (as the neighborhoods are called) where you can live among your peers and not retire to the suburbs. In Bernburg, there is one Boulevard albeit lovely and quaint, an old castle which houses bears (the town's mascot) very little restaurant selection and beyond 7pm is kind of dead. For a town, though it is not bad. I have recently been to worse. 

Many people in Bernburg speak of their life events in relation to "die Wende". Nach der Wende (after the fall of the Berlin Wall) is a typical phrase I hear in my daily dealings with Bernburgers. Although the Wall was a physical installation in Berlin with a foreboding presence, I have never heard the phrase being mentioned as much as I have heard it here. Upon reflection, the times prior to the construction of the wall, during and after its famous deconstruction may have been very traumatic for Berliners. One has to contemplate that families who lived just streets apart, were essentially continents apart within their own city. The Stasi presence was stronger and more influential. Maybe for the town folks the trauma, although clearly experienced, may have been numbed. This is really ever so clear to me when hearing of René's tales of his mischievousness in his Church. Under the regime, practicing a religion openly, was all but forbidden. René was baptised, had a first communion and confirmed without being ostracized (or worse) and one of his best Uni mates, also from the East is often also intrigued by René's accounts which he too, acknowledges was very unheard of.
Bernburg sunset

The black persons who live in Bernburg are mainly asylum seekers and male ones. There is also a big African immigrant community in Berlin, but also African Americans and one or two Afro Trinis! This leads to most try to categorize me as "something else". "No! You are not as dark as the blacks here", "Why do you call yourself black. You are brown!" when they ask more about me. "And your German is excellent" - a bit of an exaggeration but usually a big step to acceptance for them and I guess many other countries of the world. I have also heard "You are beautiful!"after they have been able to observe me for a while. Of course that last one bothers René (lol). Although I was anonymous in Berlin, I am a bit of a wonder here I guess. 

Fields of Bernburg
But all in all, the province has accepted me and sometimes I get looks of awe I really have no complaints. That being said I am ready for another big city adventure. Berlin, here we come!!
Now, to sleep

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